3 December 2020 Iris Murdoch Happiness is a matter of one’s most ordinary and everyday mode of consciousness being busy and lively and unconcerned with self.
3 December 2020 Iris Murdoch People from a planet without flowers would think we must be mad with joy the whole time to have such things about us.
3 December 2020 Iris Murdoch The priesthood is a marriage. People often start by falling in love, and they go on for years without realizing that love must change into some other love which is so unlike it that it can hardly be recognized as love at all.
3 December 2020 Iris Murdoch We shall be better prepared for the future if we see how terrible, how doomed the present is.
3 December 2020 Iris Murdoch Falling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is.
3 December 2020 Iris Murdoch There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.
3 December 2020 Iris Murdoch In almost every marriage there is a selfish and an unselfish partner. A pattern is set up and soon becomes inflexible, of one person always making the demands and one person always giving way.
3 December 2020 Iris Murdoch One doesn’t have to get anywhere in a marriage. It’s not a public conveyance.
