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Quotes about character

Who you are when no one is watching.

Checked quotes about character

41 quotes with a known source.

I can resist everything except temptation.
Source: Lady Windermere's Fan, Act I (1892)
What is a cynic? A man who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing.
Source: Lady Windermere's Fan, Act III (1892)
The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it.

Spoken by Lord Henry, the novel's charming corrupter — not Wilde's advice.

Source: The Picture of Dorian Gray, ch. 2 (1890)
Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth.
Source: The Critic as Artist, Part II (1891)
Mark TwainSourced
Always do right. This will gratify some people and astonish the rest.
Source: Note to the Young People's Society, Greenpoint Presbyterian Church, Brooklyn (1901)
Mark TwainSourced
Few things are harder to put up with than the annoyance of a good example.
Source: Pudd'nhead Wilson, ch. 19 (1894)
The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.
Source: Young India (2 April 1931)
Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.
Source: "The Doctrine of the Sword", Young India (11 August 1920)
Mahatma GandhiAttributed
A 'No' uttered from the deepest conviction is better than a 'Yes' merely uttered to please, or worse, to avoid trouble.
Source: Attributed to Young India (1927)
He who fights with monsters should look to it that he himself does not become a monster. And when you gaze long into an abyss the abyss also gazes into you.
Source: Beyond Good and Evil, §146 (1886)
No longer talk at all about the kind of man that a good man ought to be, but be such.

Popularly shortened to "Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one."

Source: Meditations 10.16, tr. George Long
The best way of avenging thyself is not to become like the wrong doer.
Source: Meditations 6.6, tr. George Long
Such as are thy habitual thoughts, such also will be the character of thy mind; for the soul is dyed by the thoughts.
Source: Meditations 5.16, tr. George Long
EpictetusSourced
First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do.
Source: Discourses III.23, tr. George Long
EpictetusAttributed
No man is free who is not master of himself.
Source: Fragments, preserved by Stobaeus
ConfuciusSourced
To see what is right, and not to do it, is want of courage.
Source: Analects 2.24, tr. James Legge
Lao TzuSourced
He who knows other men is discerning; he who knows himself is intelligent.
Source: Tao Te Ching, ch. 33, tr. James Legge
A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds.

The key word is "foolish" — he is not against consistency as such.

Source: Self-Reliance (1841)
Trust thyself: every heart vibrates to that iron string.
Source: Self-Reliance (1841)
If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer.
Source: Walden, "Conclusion" (1854)
There is no greatness where there is not simplicity, goodness, and truth.
Source: War and Peace, Book 14 (1869)
To go wrong in one's own way is better than to go right in someone else's.
Source: Crime and Punishment, Part 3, ch. 1 (1866) — Razumikhin
The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, but in ourselves.
Source: Julius Caesar, Act I, Scene 2 — Cassius
This above all: to thine own self be true.

Polonius is a windbag; Shakespeare puts this wisdom in a fool's mouth.

Source: Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3 — Polonius
Vanity and pride are different things, though the words are often used synonymously.
Source: Pride and Prejudice, ch. 5 (1813) — Mary Bennet
Every man carries the entire form of the human condition.
Source: Essays, Book III, ch. 2, "Of Repentance" (1588)
HeraclitusSourced
Character is destiny.
Source: Fragment B119
CiceroSourced
Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all the others.
Source: Pro Plancio 80
Ye were not made to live like unto brutes, but for pursuit of virtue and of knowledge.
Source: Inferno XXVI.119–120, tr. H. W. Longfellow
When a true genius appears in the world, you may know him by this sign, that the dunces are all in confederacy against him.
Source: Thoughts on Various Subjects (1706)
Two things fill the mind with ever new and increasing admiration and awe: the starry heavens above me and the moral law within me.
Source: Critique of Practical Reason, Conclusion (1788)
Out of the crooked timber of humanity no straight thing was ever made.
Source: Idea for a Universal History, Sixth Proposition (1784)
Two souls, alas, are dwelling in my breast.
Source: Faust, Part One, line 1112 (1808)
I am no bird; and no net ensnares me: I am a free human being with an independent will.
Source: Jane Eyre, ch. 23 (1847)
Do I contradict myself? Very well then I contradict myself, (I am large, I contain multitudes.)
Source: Song of Myself, §51 (1855)
Bad men need nothing more to compass their ends, than that good men should look on and do nothing.
Source: Inaugural Address at the University of St Andrews (1867)
Ask not what your country can do for you — ask what you can do for your country.
Source: Inaugural Address (20 January 1961)
One is not born, but rather becomes, a woman.
Source: The Second Sex (1949)
Don't be afraid and don't steal.
Source: His famous summary of good government ("Nebát se a nekrást")

Famous, but not theirs

Quotes about character that are usually credited to the wrong person.

Oscar WildeNot theirs
Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.

Actually: No trace in Wilde's works, letters or recorded conversation. It was attached to his name only in recent decades.

Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.

Actually: No trace in Shaw's plays, prefaces or letters; it was attached to his name long after his death.

AristotleNot theirs
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.

Actually: Will Durant summarising Aristotle in The Story of Philosophy (1926).

Lao TzuNot theirs
Watch your thoughts, they become words; watch your words, they become actions.

Actually: Quote Investigator traces it to Frank Outlaw, a US supermarket executive, in 1977.

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.

Actually: Henry Stanley Haskins, Meditations in Wall Street (1940).

To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.

Actually: Not found in Emerson's essays, journals or letters; the attribution is modern.

Abraham LincolnNot theirs
Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power.

Actually: Robert G. Ingersoll writing about Lincoln in 1883 — a compliment, later turned into a quote.

Edmund BurkeNot theirs
The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.

Actually: Not found in Burke. The closest real lines are his "When bad men combine, the good must associate" (1770) and John Stuart Mill's 1867 "Bad men need nothing more… than that good men should look on and do nothing."

Martin LutherNo source found
Here I stand, I can do no other.

The trail: Printed in early editions of his speech at Worms (1521), but not in the transcripts of the hearing; he may never have said it.